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Herbert Jaffe, 86, Columbia math prof, human resources director: Newspaper Obituary and Death Notice
Star-Ledger, The (Newark, NJ) - Monday, September 9, 2002
Deceased Name: Herbert Jaffe, 86, Columbia math prof, human resources director
OBITUARY
A Mass for Herbert B. Jaffe, 86, of Roselle will be at 10 a.m. Wednesday in the Church of St. Joseph the Carpenter, Roselle, after the funeral from the Sullivan Funeral Home, 146 E. Second Ave., Roselle.
Mr. Jaffe, who died Saturday at home, was a controller and director of human resources at Savin Business Machine, Valhalla, N.Y., for 15 years before retiring in 1982. He was also a math professor at Columbia University, New York City, for three years.
Mr. Jaffe earned a bachelor's degree and a master's degree in math, both from Columbia University in New York City.
He was a member of the Interfaith Council of Roselle, Roselle Park, for 12 years.
Born in the Bronx, he lived in Forest Hills, N.Y., before moving to Roselle 40 years ago.
Surviving are Abyna, his wife of 60 years; daughters, Barbara A. and Robin Bischoff; a son, Roger J.; a brother, Stanley; a sister, Mildred Zizmor, and eight grandchildren.
Herbert B. Jaffee,according to Ancestry's U.S. Veterans Affairs Death File, enlisted in the army on 11 Aug 1943 and was discharged 28 Dec 1946. The listing in Ancestry's U. S. Veterans Gravesites collection states that he was born 26 April 1916 and died 7 Sep 2002. He is listed as a Captain in the U.S. Army. He is buried at Graceland Memorial Park, 1900 Galloping Hill Road, Kenilworth, New Jersey.
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